My boyfriend says that i am a bad girlfriend because i don't do stuff like touching, kissing with him. I don't want to....Am i a bad girlfriend ?
Thank you for your question.
I can understand that you are in a difficult situation. What I feel, before marriage you want to have an only emotional bond with your boyfriend and you feel very uncomfortable with physical attachment. That is your way of thinking and we appreciate it. In your boyfriend's side, he needs both physical and emotional attachment from his girlfriend. At this stage, he expects simple physical movements only to enjoy the relationship before the marriage. It is noticeable that there is a conflict between the expectations of two of you. Therefore, try to communicate with him properly and come into a settlement.
In your side, if you are uncomfortable with physical attachment with a boy forever, even in marriage, please talk to a Counsellor. (This does not mean that you are bad)
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Yeheli.ප්රශ්න අසනු ලබයි 31 Dec 2018 Mon 8:45 AM