My husband tries to control me. He doesn't let me to go to my mom's place. We have two kids. They still very young. One is one and three months and the other is three and ten months. We live with husband's mother at her place. I work. I am not well. l have diabetes and high blood pressure. They help me but scolds me most of the time. l know I am depressed. My husband is strict. but I don't want him to control me. At least I need my freedom. please help me.
Thank you for your question.
We can understand your situation. For a better solution you have to discuss your issues with your husband very closely but openly. Tell your requirement and ask why he is refusing it ? Identity the issues what he's suffering from. Both sides may have same values on family matters.. but these can be sorted out following a friendly loving discussion.
Do not depressed because of low esteem . Don't try to look into the negative side of daily events. Have a chat and openly discuss your own family matters with husband. It may help to relieve your stress.
Also control ego and try to accept and negotiate things between you.
This is a very common problem among the families but easy to get rid of.
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Yeheli.ප්රශ්න අසනු ලබයි 30 Jun 2019 Sun 2:11 AM